Tuesday, 7 August 2012

How To Build Trust In A Relationship

Trust--- A word itself a huge meaning in every relation. Must say Trust is such a delicate and yet magical word in relationships. Trust is the key to keep your relationship healthy and life long live. If we talk about the lovers or Husband wife relationship I must say trust is the bond that binds lovers together especially when they are faced with adversities. This small word has a way of keeping a couple united. Trust can do so many happy things for any relationship, but the best thing it can do is bring both of you closer, avoid pain and hurt, and make both of you fall more in love with each other every single day. Oftenly mistrust harms your relationship. Most of the time you relationship crisis are seen to be like doubts about one another, insecurity. And slowly this poison of untrust may spoil any relationship. We all know sense of security is the key to happy and healthy relationship and it only comes from your trustworthy relationship and bonding.

Most people are scared of enlightening their true inner sides in love. If we talk about the couples at first, the guy and the girl are scared to kiss, and then they’re afraid to go to second stand and then to the third. But the things which push on them slowly slowly in the bonding of love is only trust with each other. Once they get long-ago that, life gets a bit manageable and both of they start to open up with each other. Even they don’ know whenever the limits are shatter and the relationship bonding is become magical. It’s all amazing and exciting. But do you realize the one thing that matters here?? Every single happening that happened here didn’t happen just like that. Every single step took a little bit of trust that ultimately accumulated into the comfort of the first attempt.

Trust is very important in every relationship. Couples who trust each other have security and almost certainly feel closer. Here are some ways newlyweds can build trust:

Always be honest and truthful to your Partner: - You should never lie to your parner unless or until it demands a lot. Means if you’re planning a surprise party for your spouse, or any special surprise then it will be ok. Even small lies like you are late in office; you are with your friends all these are very bad habits you should change all these habits very soon. Otherwise you never know when your relationship gets affected with mistrust.

Be reliable: - Always try to keep maintain your reliability. Don’t break your promises all the time, sometimes may be there is some problems of yours. If you promise for dinner or movie or anything else just do it on time. Reliability is a major step in the building of a trust worthy relationship.

Set boundaries :- Don’t make your partner jealous means keep away your flirty nature if you want a healthy married relationship. When you flirt with that co-worker, then keep it professional when you already know it bothers your spouse. Don’t set up lunch dates with that ex who always calls. Make sure to maintain priority of your spouse always.

Always trust yourself. :- Unless or until your partner gives you the reason to doubt and untrust don’t take any action. Without proof, you’ll just create an air of mistrust. Otherwise it’ll create your partner doubt your honesty, too. You should have complete faith in your spouse faithfulness and honesty. You must believe what he or she tells you.

Make your life more healthy with these small things..Keep your relation more alive and fresh always with the blossom of trust….

Editor: C.L Chauhan